Jewish marriage sanctifies man and woman. Mivkah observance introduces times of separation and reunion as part of a cycle in married life. Separation begins with the onset of the menstrual flow (or other uterine bleeding). It is a time when the depth of the husband-wife relationship is expressed without physical intimacy. It is a period of anticipation and preparation for Mikvah immersion. The reunion that follows holds the highest potential for sanctity in marriage.
Mikvah immersion is entrusted to the woman. It is a moment of special closeness in a woman's relationship with G-d, is an auspicious time for her personal prayers and requests to be granted.
This checklist is useful prior to immersion. Complete understanding and observance of these laws necessitates in-depth study and subsequent review on a woman-to-woman basis, in private or group settings, with an open sharing of knowledge and experience.
As the waters of the mikvah embrace you, so may you be enveloped with Divine blessings in every aspect of your life.
During your preparations, you may call on your Mikvah attendant for advice and assistance.
You can use the checkboxes beside each item to keep track of what you've done. If you would like to see a checklist including the timing to be allowed for each step of your preparation, please click here
Enter the Mikvah and immerse once. Then, (cover head), submerge body to neck, embrace yourself beneath your heart, and recite the blessing:
BARUCH ATAH A-DOH-NOI ELO-HAINU MELECH HA’OLOM ASHER KIDESHONU B’MITZVOSAV V’TZIVANU AL HAT’VILAH.
Blessed are You, Lrd our Gd, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments, and commanded us concerning the immersion
Immerse again following the blessing.
Immerse any further immersions, according to your custom.
Upon completion many women say the following:
Y’-HI RA-TZON MI-L’-FO-NEH-CHAH A-DOH-NOI- E-LO-HAI-NU VAI-LO-HAI A-VO-SAI- NU SHE-YI-BO-NEH BAIS HA-MIK-DOSH BI-M’-HAI-RAH V’-YO-MAI-NU V’-SAIN CHEL- KAI-NU B’-SO-RO-SEH-CHAH.
May it be Your will, L-rd, Our G-d and G-d of our fathers, that the Holy Temple be rebuilt speedily in our days, and grant us a portion in Your Torah.
The gates of heaven are now open to your private prayers.
There are important guidelines to proper use of the Mikvah. To ensure that all preparations and the actual immersion are all performed correctly, one should be advised by a reliable counselor. For a free and confidential consultation, please call 718-756-5700 or email us at mikvah@mikvah.org.